John you were the love of my life and my soulmate we did everything together. Loving husband father to Andrew & Simon Grandad to Kirstie Yasmin Oliver and Abigail we shall never forget you will always be remembered for your gentle kind manner and thoughtfulness for us all. Will be missed by family and friends alike. I am sure you are looking over us sharing a glass of Chateauneuf du Pape with Bruce and other friends. Au revoir til we meet again. Your loving wife Pamxx

John was a great brother-in-law who, with his father, introduced me to golf. I have fond memories of we three waiting at the gates of Beckenham Golf Course each Saturday morning before dawn so that we could be the first group out. John also taught me that you have to talk to the ball after you hit it; "to encourage it to go where you want". Just some of my many memories of John Ray

John's true legacy is his beautiful loving family so thank you Pam for making his life so happy and fulfilled and contributing to the the sweet memories we have of him, Much love, Angela and Simon